Heart beating in my chest.

List of songs I'm going to be running to for: 21 km, 13 miles, 21,000 metres, 68,897 feet. Tomorrow. My heart will never have pumped so fast for so long in my life. It's kind of... dangerously exciting.

1. The Aviator - K-OS

2. Romantic Rights - Death From Above 1979

3. Sex on Fire - Kings of Leon

4. D.O.A. - Jay-Z

5. Needy Girl - Chromeo

6. Ares - Bloc Party

7. I Gotta Feeling - Black Eyed Peas

8. Rockstar 101 - Rihanna

9. Pumpkin Soup - Kate Nash

10. Sweet Dreams - Beyonce

11. Keep the Car Running - The Arcade Fire

12. Runaway - Janet Jackson

13. Don't Stop the Music - Rihanna

14. Little Secrets - Passion Pit

15. Run this town - Jay-Z

16. You've got the love - Florence and the Machine

17. The Con - Tegan and Sara

18. Sweetness - Jimmy Eat World

19. Foundations - Kate Nash

20. Tik Tok - KeSha

21. Day 'N' Nite (Crookers Remix) - KiD CuDi

22. Fried My Little Brains - The Kills

23. Feel it in My Bones (Tiesto remix) - Tegan and Sara

24. Breakin' Dishes - Rihanna

25. Heartbeats - The Knife

26. Can't Get You Out of My Head - Kylie Minogue

27. Lovegame - Lady GaGa

28. Another Runaway - Ladyhawke

29. Valerie - Mark Ronson featuring Amy Winehouse

30. The Way you Make Me Feel - Michael Jackson

31. Cult Logic - Miike Snow

32. Do it - Nelly Furtado

33. Sleepyhead - Passion Pit

34. Back in your Head - Tegan and Sara

35. You and Your Hand - Pink

36. Breath and Stop - Qtip

37. Rude Boy - Rihanna

38. Rising Down (Feat. Mos Def) - The Roots

39. Telephone - Lady GaGa & Beyonce

40. Gimme Sympathy - Metric

41. Brother Down - Sam Roberts

42. Way I Are (feat. Keri Hilson) - Timbaland

43. Sexy Bitch - David Guetta feat. Akon

2.6 hours of songs, to run. Feeling excited, confident, and anxious.

Four days til absolute destruction of my body

In four days I have to run 21 km across the capital city and across a finish line, to get a medal around my neck.

But training has been lackluster, weak, slow, short. The furthest I've ran is 12 km, and it was a struggle. And such a situation leads me with a lack of confidence, an uncertainty, as to whether or not I'm going to be able to do it.

I want that medal. More than anything. I want to sweat so much I'm drenched, and I want to cross that finish line. For myself.

Is it really mind over matter? Can I convince myself I'm going to do it, going to accomplish this huge hurdle I've been 'training' for, hoping for. I do not know.

Words of encouragement. Are needed.

Book 6

Angela's Ashes by Frank McCourt

The story follows a poor Irish family during times of the Second World War in Ireland, so poor that they sleep in the same bed, or on the floor by the fire, and during the day steal fish n' chips thrown on the road by drunken men the night before.

I enjoyed reading it. The style of the book was written as though Frank were writing it when he was nine, 10, 11 years old, and gives a first-hand perception of trying and eventually succeeding to escape poverty.

I caught myself laughing out loud at certain parts, as Frank - growing out of adolescence - called sex 'the excitement'.

But the book wasn't a happy book. There may have been cheerful moments, when Frank and his brothers Malachy and Michael played, found bread and had a 'feast'. But much of the book left me heavyhearted - I was unaware of just how much poverty, how much hunger existed in Ireland, and my guess is that many still have no idea. Ireland was (is) cold, wet, and living directly next to the communal lavatory in Limerick is surely far from paradise.

And an interesting point: towards the end of the book, Frank is working for a magazine distributing company and one day is asked to gather as many magazines from shop owners as he can. Why? To rip out page 16 that encourages birth control. Ironically, Frank's mother has had seven children, one after the other, and three of whom have died due to hunger/consumption/disease. The government at the time made birth control illegal. It's just interesting to see how different the times - even of 50 years ago - were than they are today.

My favourite part of the book, however, is as Frank goes to school. He encounters one teacher that, despite flappy shoes, dirty stocking, hungry bellies, does not judge the poor kids of Limerick, Frank included.

The teacher says, "You have to study and learn so that you can make up your own mind about history and everything else, but you can't make up an empty mind. Stock your mind. Stock your mind. It is your house of treasure and no one in the world can interfere with it... you might be poor, your shoes might be broken, but your mind is a palace."

The Stanley.

HOT DOG!

New old books and dirty fingers

My hands are covered in dust after sifting through old books at this dingy, crowded bookstore in downtown Ottawa.

The moment I walked in I knew it was trouble. Books piled up around your feet, East of Eden mixed with Harry Potter mixed with books no one has ever heard of before. But I couldn't help myself.

This store had books stacked outside too - $1 for each book - and a box full of free magazines.

Such is what attracted me in the first place.

I only found two I liked: J.D. Salinger's A Farewell to Arms and the book to the movie I so often watched when I was younger, Billie Letts' Where the Heart Is. That's a lie... I found many I liked. I found a few on my book list (see right) but I decided, after serious thought, that I'd by the $1 book, a free 1982 Canadian Geographic magazine and the $5 Salinger book. The rest will have to come from eBay.

I love books. I love the smell. The dog-eared pages, but mostly I love how you can pull yourself out of your own world and dispense yourself into the book at hand.

Don't be rude.

There's some things people just don't say. Like, the unwritten rules of life. We all have been told, "Don't be rude" by our parents when we've said such certain things. Been told, "I didn't raise you that way." We know not to ask what people make in terms of money.

So then why do people assume that when it comes to the topic of weight, it's okay to make remarks? "You need to eat more." "You don't need to run, look at you." Or, "Make sure your mother feeds you when you get home."

It's not polite to comment on someone being fat. You don't say, "You've gained weight," or "Look at your gut, it's hanging over your pants." You simply don't, because every body is different and people's lifestyles are different, and while one may not agree with or have the same lifestyle, it's an unwritten rule. It's rude. It's inconsiderate.

Just as it's not polite to give subtle hints that 'you' think 'I' am too thin. How does me being smaller than you make it okay for you to comment on my weight? Even if it's an inconspicuous comment.

I am healthy. I am 130 pounds, a size 3-5 in pants, or a 26-27, I run at least three times a week. I also eat ice cream, almost every night. I never count calories, I eat a hearty breakfast of bananas, toast and peanut butter, I eat whenever I want, and I eat whatever I want.

I am NOT: anorexic, too skinny, thin, unhealthy, bulimic.

I run because it's healthy too, because it makes me feel good. Not because I'm trying to lose weight. And if most of 'those' people who make 'those' remarks knew anything about exercise, they'd understand that running builds muscle and muscle weighs more than fat. Thus, I'm not at all concerned with my weight. I don't even have a scale. I never weigh myself.

I can deal with it for so long. I can shake it off, not let it bother me. I can pretend that this conversation of: "I'm running a half-marathon," "You don't need to do that, you're so skinny," doesn't bother me.

It does. It bothers me a lot. I shouldn't have to defend myself for being healthy, which I am. I shouldn't even have to blog about it.

Unwritten rules are not meant to only be followed under certain circumstances. Unless said person is unhealthy, bordering an illness, unwritten rules are rules. Common-sense rules. Common-decency rules.

So the next time 'you' think about commenting on someone's weight, whether it be fat or skinny or tall or short or black or white, think.

Men like these..

These two make watching The Vampire Diaries very, very, easy. As my mother would say, "It's not fair men like these are made."

Wedding, apartment, new job!

Well, I certainly have been neglecting my blog, among other things, for the last few weeks! That's terrible, really. How are all my hundreds of followers going to know what's going on in my life?

I'm in Ottawa. I was in Fernie. Then I was in Edmonton for an amazing, wonderful wedding. Now, I'm in Ottawa.

In my new... apartment! With my boyfriend. In my new apartment! How exciting! We are living in this building called The Stanley, an old brick building that sits with a lean. Literally. The doorframe to the kitchen is on a tilt, as is the rest of the place.

I'll take some pictures of the building and our apartment once I get it all set up!

Oh, and more importantly... I've now worked three days with Canadian Geographic Magazine. And it's been fabulous. I had my first blog post published on their website, have been updating their facebook page with unique stories, and cannot wait to see what I get to do next.

I even got to research old stories from rum runner days in Montreal and discovered a story about this family, the Bronfmans, who made big money selling liquor over the border.

Go here to see my blog about Dr. Seuss and his green thumb he had while writing his children's books. And please keep following for future updates!

ssshhh....

Everything I remember about Fernie has nothing to do with what I experienced for the first time when I arrived home on Friday.

Usually, memories consist of playing in the snow, dancing at the bar, hiking in the mountains, and tubing down the river in the summer.

But on Friday, it was this: absolute quiet. And yesterday, it was absolute quiet. Today... absolute quiet.

Quiet is fantastic. I stepped out of my car, and there was not a single sound. Just silence. No cars on the road, not ambulances roaring by, no people yelling at one another across the street, no bus engines speeding past. No sound.

Except maybe, for red-winged black birds in the trees, and now, the sound of rain dripping from the roof.

Silence is golden.